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Can’t afford proper school shoes for son

(February 2019)

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HC
Hatton Cross
Hence why (and something for Asa and the mods to chew over) members must post a certain number of replies to existing threads, before being allowed to post new threads..

Certainly stop threads like this - and ones like 'What's your favorite Children's Programme of the past? - programmes shown before 2011 don't count because anything before then, I don't remember them'
RO
rob Founding member
Hence why (and something for Asa and the mods to chew over) members must post a certain number of replies to existing threads, before being allowed to post new threads..

Certainly stop threads like this - and ones like 'What's your favorite Children's Programme of the past? - programmes shown before 2011 don't count because anything before then, I don't remember them'


Or disable signups during school holidays...

rob posted:
No, that can't be right surely


Please tell me you're joking...

Who me?


I cannot even...
JO
Joe
Hence why (and something for Asa and the mods to chew over) members must post a certain number of replies to existing threads, before being allowed to post new threads..

Certainly stop threads like this - and ones like 'What's your favorite Children's Programme of the past? - programmes shown before 2011 don't count because anything before then, I don't remember them'

Where would the fun be in that?
LL
London Lite Founding member
On one hand, I agree about some form of tighter moderation during school holidays when the quality of posts go down, yet when I joined TVF in the early noughties as a twenty something, most of the members here were in their late teens who had passion for tv pres.
NJ
Neil Jones Founding member
So proud of my son

Hi I went shopping with my 12 year old son last Tuesday as he needed new school shoes.

He told me that he wants plimsolls as he knows my money is quite tight at the minute. I asked him if he’s sure and he said yes plus he said some of his new friends wear them. so I bought him the plain black lace up plimsolls which cost £3.50.

It makes me happy that he understands money can sometimes be tight it actually made me a bit emotional. I’ve recently split up with my ex who I was with for 8 years. We’ve moved back to where my family are so son has started a new school a couple of weeks ago.

Has anyone else had a similar situation with there kids recently ?

His new school has a jumper and polo shirt style uniform

I'm sorry to say this but I think you have the wrong website, this is TV Forum not Mumsnet.


I suspect a follow up article in the Daily Mail will follow next week when said kid gets sent home because said plimsolls are not suitable for school. And it will be every other bugger's fault except the OP.
Brekkie, London Lite and Ittr gave kudos
WO
Woodpecker
Although I've only been registered here for about a year, I have been reading this forum on and off for more than a decade. Now, this very well could be just me looking at things through rose-tinted spectacles, but in that time the quality of some of the posts on here seems to me to have taken something of a nosedive. Don't get me wrong - there are still some very interesting discussions on here, but I think there has also been a marked increase in banality in recent years.

On one hand, I agree about some form of tighter moderation during school holidays when the quality of posts go down, yet when I joined TVF in the early noughties as a twenty something, most of the members here were in their late teens who had passion for tv pres.


It's funny: when I first started reading this forum, it was around the time of zero tolerance week. Perhaps another one of those wouldn't go amiss...

To address your point more generally, though, and without wishing to sound like an old fogey, I can't help wondering whether social media has had a lot to do with the drop in post quality. In the early days of this forum, the Internet, whilst becoming popular, wasn't the all-pervading entity that it is now, and social media was virtually non-existent. Indeed, back then, I would say that internet forums were one of the main ways for people on the Internet to communicate. As said forums were populated by users who were genuinely interested in the topics that each particular forum focussed on, the discussions were usually more intelligent, as everyone had something to say, with most people knowing their stuff (and those who didn't quickly being put in their place).

Nowadays, many people who would once have looked for and joined forums that matched their interests can simply join a relevant Facebook group instead; this leads to the situation we have now, where many internet forums seem to have died a death, and those that haven't are largely circling the drain. This forum seems to be one of the few which still has a healthy userbase, no doubt because of its niche subject matter. As I have said, though, I don't think even this forum is quite what it once was anymore. I think a lot of it is down to the culture of social media, where many people seem to just type whatever is on their minds without thinking. That seems to have bled through somewhat to here, where there seem to be a lot more trolls and low quality posts than there once were. In many ways, it's a real shame that a lot of the old internet culture has been lost, to be replaced with something far inferior.
Last edited by Woodpecker on 18 February 2019 7:49pm - 2 times in total
ET
ethanh05
Umm...

I don't know maybe get more money? Why are you asking us?
VM
VMPhil
Although I've only been registered here for about a year, I have been reading this forum on and off for more than a decade. Now, this very well could be just me looking at things through rose-tinted spectacles, but in that time the quality of some of the posts on here seems to me to have taken something of a nosedive. Don't get me wrong - there are still some very interesting discussions on here, but I think there has also been a marked increase in banality in recent years.

On one hand, I agree about some form of tighter moderation during school holidays when the quality of posts go down, yet when I joined TVF in the early noughties as a twenty something, most of the members here were in their late teens who had passion for tv pres.


It's funny: when I first started reading this forum, it was around the time of zero tolerance week. Perhaps another one of those wouldn't go amiss...

To address your point more generally, though, and without wishing to sound like an old fogey, I can't help wondering whether social media has had a lot to do with the drop in post quality. In the early days of this forum, the Internet, whilst becoming popular, wasn't the all-pervading entity that it is now, and social media was virtually non-existent. Indeed, back then, I would say that internet forums were one of the main ways for people on the Internet to communicate. As said forums were populated by users who were genuinely interested in the topics that each particular forum focussed on, the discussions were usually more intelligent, as everyone had something to say, with most people knowing their stuff (and those who didn't quickly being put in their place).

Nowadays, many people who would once have looked for and joined forums that matched their interests can simply join a relevant Facebook group instead; this leads to the situation we have now, where many internet forums seem to have died a death, and those that haven't are largely circling the drain. This forum seems to be one of the few which still has a healthy userbase, no doubt because of its niche subject matter. As I have said, though, I don't think even this forum is quite what it once was anymore. I think a lot of it is down to the culture of social media, where many people seem to just type whatever is on their minds without thinking. That seems to have bled through somewhat to here, where there seem to be a lot more trolls and low quality posts than there once were. In many ways, it's a real shame that a lot of the old internet culture has been lost, to be replaced with something far inferior.

I think you are looking through rose tinted glasses, I’m afraid.

There were much more trolls and obnoxious posters in the earlier days of this forum. It’s possible this made the forum more exciting for you, which is what you miss. But I don’t.

Many older forums have died out because their membership moved on, not because of social media. I still visit multiple forums, just not the same ones as five years ago (this excepted).

This is still one of the best, and least toxic, forums I’ve been a part of. I mean, if you think this is bad you should see some other forums…

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