JO
I hate people moaning about political correctness or health and safety laws too and I agree with this point. But you're creating arguments because of the potentially incorrect assumptions you are making about others in this conversation.
I think the schoolboy analogy is getting a bit out of control and whilst I fully understand your general point. I think you're using something very hypothetical and I don't think this is going to have a massive impact on playground bullies.
I'd be surprised if you've never talked amongst your social group speculating whether someone one is gay based on lifestyle choices or how they dress for example they're just having the sort of conversations gay and straight people might have all the time in real life.
I think there is an outrage here that wouldn't exist if this was something Graham Norton or Alan Carr commented on on their chat shows and I dislike the idea we should have exclusitivy on making light about things that sometimes separate gay people and straight people. Lets face it those two comedians whole shtick is based on a stereotypical idea of a gay man. Are you suggesting that kind of act shouldn't on television?
I really don't think this would be an issue if it was a joke about someones size or looks, which could be much more damaging to fat kid on the playground than the whats to me the very inoffensive view that gay men and more partial ice cream than straight men.
Just because you don't understand, doesn't mean it isn't a problem. Go do some learning about how damaging stereotypes can be with respect to people's gender and sexual identity. Really easy to just say stuff when you don't have a bloody clue because it doesn't affect you.
Whilst I can imagine some gay men may feel uneasy about their sexuality due to stereotypes of gay men not matching who they feel they are or how they want people to see them. That doesn't mean there isn't a reason the stereotypes exist and certain gay men themselves perpetuate those stereotypes quite happily.
The word 'offence' is thrown about a lot in these circumstances, but it is possible to complain about certain language without taking personal offence. I'm more concerned about the impact such flippant comments would have on others. That doesn't mean it's none of my business.
I agree with this too in general, you don't have to be directly offended by something for it concern you. We just differ in the fact it doesn't concern me hugely.
In summary I don't believe people should be allowed to say whatever they want no matter who it offends, but I don't see this as malicious or understand why anyone would have enough energy to be offended by it.
I think you can have a view on the whether the comment was funny or not, and I don't think this is particularly having watched the clip outside of the context of the rest of show. You can have a view as to whether it's outdated humour or not. But I don't think there is enough of consensus for any sanctions or sacking over this, it's very subjective as to whether people are OK with it or not, so you would hope TGT would learn from it and are allowed to move on. After all I don't think people on television should have to be worried anything they say could be a career ender which seems to be what some people want.
PS: Please nobody mention political correctness. This isn't about that. And besides, most of the time PC just means "not treating people like ****"
I hate people moaning about political correctness or health and safety laws too and I agree with this point. But you're creating arguments because of the potentially incorrect assumptions you are making about others in this conversation.
They'd probably be too preoccupied with the constant name calling and fear of getting their head kicked in on the way home from school.
I think the schoolboy analogy is getting a bit out of control and whilst I fully understand your general point. I think you're using something very hypothetical and I don't think this is going to have a massive impact on playground bullies.
I'd be surprised if you've never talked amongst your social group speculating whether someone one is gay based on lifestyle choices or how they dress for example they're just having the sort of conversations gay and straight people might have all the time in real life.
I think there is an outrage here that wouldn't exist if this was something Graham Norton or Alan Carr commented on on their chat shows and I dislike the idea we should have exclusitivy on making light about things that sometimes separate gay people and straight people. Lets face it those two comedians whole shtick is based on a stereotypical idea of a gay man. Are you suggesting that kind of act shouldn't on television?
I really don't think this would be an issue if it was a joke about someones size or looks, which could be much more damaging to fat kid on the playground than the whats to me the very inoffensive view that gay men and more partial ice cream than straight men.
Just because you don't understand, doesn't mean it isn't a problem. Go do some learning about how damaging stereotypes can be with respect to people's gender and sexual identity. Really easy to just say stuff when you don't have a bloody clue because it doesn't affect you.
Whilst I can imagine some gay men may feel uneasy about their sexuality due to stereotypes of gay men not matching who they feel they are or how they want people to see them. That doesn't mean there isn't a reason the stereotypes exist and certain gay men themselves perpetuate those stereotypes quite happily.
The word 'offence' is thrown about a lot in these circumstances, but it is possible to complain about certain language without taking personal offence. I'm more concerned about the impact such flippant comments would have on others. That doesn't mean it's none of my business.
I agree with this too in general, you don't have to be directly offended by something for it concern you. We just differ in the fact it doesn't concern me hugely.
In summary I don't believe people should be allowed to say whatever they want no matter who it offends, but I don't see this as malicious or understand why anyone would have enough energy to be offended by it.
I think you can have a view on the whether the comment was funny or not, and I don't think this is particularly having watched the clip outside of the context of the rest of show. You can have a view as to whether it's outdated humour or not. But I don't think there is enough of consensus for any sanctions or sacking over this, it's very subjective as to whether people are OK with it or not, so you would hope TGT would learn from it and are allowed to move on. After all I don't think people on television should have to be worried anything they say could be a career ender which seems to be what some people want.
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